Karen Abercrombie, Actress,Singer-Songwriter,Speaker, Advice to Single Christian Women

I had the honor of interviewing Karen Abercrombie, the actress who gave a stellar performance as Miss Clara in the movie War Room. I left the interview uplifted and knowing one thing for sure: Karen Abercrombie is not only a talented actress, singer-songwriter, speaker, producer, but she's a humble, kind and strong faith warrior.

It's no surprise to me that Karen received a Dove Award, a Movieguide and a Grace Award for her soul-stirring performance as Miss Clara in the movie War Room.

I asked Karen if she had any advice to share with single Christian women about marriage.

"If you're feeling the pressure to get married, just to get married and you haven't found anyone," she said, "don't just jump into any situation to have a husband and to have a child.

You could be jumping into a fire. Trust God because nothing is more wonderful than having a mate that is loving and supportive. This is a healthy relationship to bring a child into."

Read about Karen's journey of conceiving and giving birth after age 35 on my InSeason Mom blog.

You can also follow her on Facebook, Twitter and her Website.

Check out the clip below and her moving portrayal of Miss Clara in the movie War Room.


Singleness and Harvest-time Season

Who would have thought by growing up on a farm God was showing me a life-long lesson?

I didn’t appreciate the peaceful farm scenery growing up. I wanted to live in town, a fast-paced city. Now I always feel refreshed when I go to our family farm, soaking up the sunshine and looking at the beautiful scenery.

Having been raised on a farm, I’ve seen first-hand that when you plant seeds for a crop not all of them will produce at the same time. Each will operate in its own God-given season.

The exact is true with our lives. You may have wanted to get married during your twenties or early thirties but did not. You are in your season of waiting.

Getting married at 40, conceiving naturally and giving birth at age 42 and 44 was NEVER in my well-designed plan. I was supposed to be married to Mr. Super Christian and have all of my well-behaved children by age 27! However, the detour from my perfect plan has made me more compassionate and humble. The years have taught me from seeing the experiences of others that when our dreams are fulfilled too quickly, we take the fulfillment for granted. We become prideful.
Now, years after praying through my season of waiting, I know and embrace the ministry God has chosen for me. I know that providing support through this blog for Christian women 35+ who want to get married and providing support for first time moms and women who want to be moms over 35 and 40 through InSeason Mom is His well-designed path for me.

When I connect with women over 35 and 40 who are in their “season of waiting," I do not view them as statistics. I see them as I see myself and that’s why I often call them “my sisters.” I want them to know that God has not forgotten them. He still has wonderful plans for them (Jeremiah 29:11). I know this because He has used my life as a testimony to the other side of their journey-Harvest time!